Blog Posts
7 things I am grateful for in 2017
7 things I am grateful for in 2017The year is a few days from being over but it’s not over yet! God can still do something in your life, after all, He is The God of suddenly. For B and I we started the year with plans to move from Durban. We felt Durban was not...
When you are not your best friend’s best friend
When you are not your best friend's best friendAs much as this can be funny, it is a heartbreaking fact for the one who considers you their best friend when you don’t. How do friendships get to this point? When your best friend doesn’t see you as his/her best friend?...
An open letter to my 30 year old self
An open letter to my 30 year old selfDear Temo, It has been a crazy ride these past 10 years. Some were the hardest rides and some the most joyful rides ever! On Tuesday, you turned 30. You did well by taking a day off from work so you can celebrate your day the way...
Why would you want to get married?
30 Things I learned Before My 30th CandleNo! I’m not having marital issues and no I’m also not bitter! But why would You want to marry??? Why marriage??? B and I sometimes wonder what the best age to get married in is. I don’t think I would have managed getting...
30 Things I learned Before My 30th Candle
30 Things I learned Before My 30th Candle1. Life is a mystery. You can never know what life has in store for you. It is full of secrets that only get revealed in your life when the time is right. 2. Every choice you make has a consequence. Young or old, every choice...
No Compromise
No CompromiseThis is what a man I used to be friends with told me when I asked why he never married his varsity sweetheart. He explained further that it was not because he did not want her to be what she wanted to be, it is just that the timing was not right....
Patterns
PatternsOne of the questions I was asked at pre-marital counselling was to share how my parents’ marriage was like. B was asked the same question. I was then asked to describe my mother with one word. I said she is a survivor. I described my dad as chilled. B was...
Why do you do what you do?
Why do you do what you do?Growing up is something else! You notice how time passes by so quickly and wonder if you and your peers have the same 24 hours because for some odd reason, they seem to be moving on with life. You realise you have yourself to blame if your...
2016, What a year it has been!
2016, What a year it has been!December is a month where I pause and reflect on the year. Take stock of what I did and didn't do. I had planned to share my post about "Why do you do what you do", until I came across this great idea from blogger Phumeza Langa...